Loki and I went to the fountain yesterday and met up with some mama friends and little ones. It was so much fun!! It's been awhile since I've gotten to go out and 'do stuff'. It was really nice.
Today however, was not so great. Lucky finally admitted to me (after I asked him) that he thinks that I 'gave up' on my VBA2C when I had my CBAC with Loki. When I asked him why he didn't say anything sooner, he said that it was because it didn't bother him, he's used to me not following through on things. It hurt, a lot.
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What a cute baby boy ;)
I am so sorry about what Lucky said. Mama, you did not give up. YOu had a feeling that you were not comfortable with and made the best decision for you and your baby. You are such a wonderful mama, it really is that obvious!!! xoxo
Ah, i'd like to smack Lucky upside the head. He'd feel really "lucky" then. I don't want to hear about a man telling awoman she 'gave up' on birth until he has pushed a baby out of his penis, or has had one cut out of his abdomen. Then he can pass judgement. Kick him in the balls for me.
I know you know this.. but birth is just one day. It's a day that impacts us for a long time, but it's just one day. one moment. You are amazing.
Love and light, K
i didn't know what to say when i first read this...but now that i read Korin's response, i want to say that!
really, it is very painful to not feel completely supported by your partner, especially in an event that is so huge in your life. i think you deserve more support. really. he does need a good kick in the balls.
xo
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